Wednesday, November 04, 2009

Missing her....

I realized the other day, that I miss Mom more than I realize. I realize that she was the cheerleader in the family. The nosy one, the one who of course checked up on you, and what you were doing. She was.... the mom. We have done A LOT to the house already, and thank God for friends that are curious about the changes! I just know that if she was still alive, I would be getting phonecalls checking up on the progress of the kitchen or flooring or painting, or the big guy in kindergarten or the underling that is permantly attached to my leg............

The friend making has been very slow. I was spoiled in residency with 17 instant friends, who showed up at your door with gifts. Their kids were your kids friends, whether they liked it or not. So, it has been an adjustment...

Now I must go, my Domestic Goddess duties call.......

4 Comments:

At 9:39 PM, Blogger Corey Timm said...

I happened upon your blog and can relate in that I too lost my mom recently. She left a huge hole that is not as big as it was, but is still healing. It's amazing how much she 'anchored' me. I always knew I had a safe place to go back to when things weren't so good.

Didn't mean to depress you, instead wanted to let you know others feel for and with you.

 
At 7:34 PM, Blogger Rosita said...

I really like how you write; very candid and real. I'm sorry about your mother. I feel similarly with my grandma who recently passed as of late. Hang in there with positivity! :)

 
At 8:45 AM, Blogger priyalasya said...

hi, came thru "next blog", not an alien, but classical dancer from india.. and message ( a la your mom) take care, cheers. nice post

 
At 5:22 AM, Blogger Anna Koronis said...

just saw your blog and it really touched me as i have lost people also
loved it

check out my blog?
http://iloveveryfewthingsmore.blogspot.com/

 

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